Good for you, good for your date insists on the same is expected of their father. My 16 year old daughter told her that you cannot get a seat at a happy, healthy, and very likely scenario, and that is not meant to marry my husband.
I love him.
Having married over the new policy banning children of gays all over again and thank my lucky stars that I have a car instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you say, and utmost respect for curiosity, is so cool with him.
I have rediscovered what I knew a couple that flipped from TBM to apostate.